Most managers know they should ask for input. They still fail to ask, or brush off the answer when it arrives. Speaking up and staying silent turn out to be separate behaviors with separate causes — which is why so many "open door" fixes quietly fail.
Anseel & Sherf · 2025 · Annual Review of Organizational Psychology and Organizational Behavior
Twenty-five years of feedback research, and the simple rules don't hold.
A widely repeated rule — make feedback highly specific — can actually hurt someone just starting to learn. The review sorts a sprawling literature into the situations where each rule works and where it backfires.
Sherf, Croitoru & McElroy · 2024 · Personnel Psychology
Asking for input and quietly watching are not the same behavior.
A meta-analysis of nearly 400 samples shows feedback-, information-, and advice-seeking share one motivational structure — which is why the levers that boost direct asking barely touch quiet observation.
Hussain, Tangirala & Sherf · 2023 · Academy of Management Journal
Who gets heard advocating for equity depends on who's in the room.
Mixed-gender coalitions advocate for gender equity more effectively than single-gender ones. Women advocating alone can be waved off as self-interested; men advocating alone lack lived credibility. Together they carry both.
Sherf, Parke & Isaakyan · 2021 · Academy of Management Journal
Speaking up and staying silent are not opposites.
Speaking up is driven by the pull toward improving things; staying silent by the push to protect yourself. Because the roots differ, a suggestion box that gets people talking does almost nothing to reduce silence — and the concerns people swallow are the ones most tied to burnout.
Sherf & Morrison · 2020 · Journal of Applied Psychology
Confident managers seek less feedback, not more.
Confidence makes managers seek less feedback, because they figure they already know enough to be useful. The fix is small: when they take the other person's perspective, confidence flips from a barrier into an asset.